Urban Dictionary definition: “Twin-flames are our most perfect mirrors, because they are us in another body. Our twin-flames are the only ones who give us a true and honest reflection of who we are, and where we are in our lives at any given time.
When you look at each other, you will feel like you are looking in the mirror because of the magic of your soul being mirrored, you will just FEEL it!”
When you feel the click when you are with this twin-flame of yours, you feel the broken pieces of the universe and yourself falling right into place.
But it is also really difficult if your “twin” runs: if they refuse to acknowledge the gravity of your relationship and leave you. Unreciprocated feelings, despite being food for romantics since forever, are not a pleasant. So what course of action do you take when your twin-flame leaves?
Heal from the initial upheaval
Whenever something is torn away from something else, there is an initial shock, like an earthquake hit. It becomes impossible to get out of bed and do anything constructive with life. Snap out of it. Keep reminding yourself that no matter what, you two are destined to be together.
In Japan, there are people who practice kintsugi also known as kintsukuroi. This is a type of repairing done to pottery: only difference, the pottery is repaired with gold. The result: unique pottery which showcases its life and usage in gold. Shouldn’t it be the same for people? After all, our wounds and scars are proof of our success; that we faced all that and made it through.
Let your Twin-flame be. Do not go after them. It is really tempting to, but don’t. Maintain a dignified distance. Give them time and space to think. Let them conclude on their own what you already know: That you two are meant to be together. After all, you two are reflections of each other.
Don’t let go
Understand that this is it. Also understand that problems like this are like the mud that comes with the relief on rain. You two must take each day as it comes. At the end of the day, remember this: You two are meant to shine together. Nothing can stop it.