There are many women who are capable enough to balance themselves and deal with whatever is thrown at them by unsuitable men. However, it is not right that they have to deal with this.
Dating has two sides. You can go out and actually have a good time, or it come back home frustrated and angry. Everyone has a unique experience to share and while perfection is impossible, there is a limit to the amount of negativity that can be tolerated.
No matter how much your boyfriend needs you for support, be it in whatever way, it is no reason to let that destroy your life. You are not his caretaker. This is not to say that the men you might meet don’t have good traits. However, just because they’re smart or funny doesn’t mean you have to put up with them when they’re also rude and unkind.
The best way to stay clear of men who will drain you, physically and mentally, is by knowing that you are whole by yourself. Learn to be happy with yourself at all times.
A boyfriend should only add to an already existing sense of completeness. He shouldn’t be necessary to achieve that feeling in the first place. It is better to be lonely and single than to be stuck with someone who will only make it all worse.
When you meet a guy for the first time, don’t just pay attention to what he’s saying. Observe the things he does closely. If he mistreats you then it is best that you leave because you won’t find your fairytale ending here. Trying to stick to it will prevent you from finding happiness.
Remember that you are an individual who deserves to be cared for just like all the other people on this planet. Life is short so don’t let anyone else ruin it for you.
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