Being in a serious and devoted relationship can sometimes be harder than it seems.
In order to spare yourself and your partner from going through a lot of hardship, we recommend you avoid these 3 toxic behaviors.
1. Reacting irrationally to constructive criticism, hear them out
Communication is crucial for every relationship, no doubt there. So, if your partner calls you out because you still haven’t done your share of the household chores don’t go ballistic right away.
There must be a reason they are mentioning this to you. You certainly don’t want them to stop caring.
You might be under a lot of stress, but it’s better to share your burdens with your partner than to pick up a fight.
2. Not including your partners when making major plans and financial decisions for the future
Just remember, it takes two to tango. The sooner you realize you are not alone in the relationship, the lesser the effects of your selfish behavior.
Yes, it is CRUCIAL to consult your partner when deciding on buying a new car or something even bigger.
It doesn’t mean you are asking permission, but at least think about how you would feel if they did the same to you. Walk for a minute in their shoes, and think about needs and wishes.
3. Starting fights all the time
After the initial love intoxication wares off, here comes the much needed reality check. Yup, they have FLAWS. We all do! However, pointing out only the negative details can do wonders for starting fights.
Don’t do this! EVER! Unless you want to get out of the relationship as soon as possible! Instead concentrate on what’s good about your partner.
Find all the little things that make them beautiful. After all, you fell in love with them for a reason, right?
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